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One‑on‑ones are your most important recurring meeting as a manager. They’re where coaching, trust, and early risk detection actually happen.
Handled well, they keep people engaged, aligned, and growing – not just “status updates.”

Why One‑on‑Ones Matter

For Managers

Stay close to reality
Hear about risks, blockers, and morale before they show up in metrics.
  • Coach, don’t just assign
    Use the time to build judgment and autonomy, not to re‑do sprint planning.
  • Build trust and retention
    Consistent, high‑quality 1:1s are one of the strongest predictors of engagement.

For Team Members

  • Dedicated space for them
    Time to talk about career, concerns, and ideas that don’t fit into standups.
  • Clear priorities and expectations
    Align on what “good” looks like this week/quarter.
  • Regular feedback loop
    Both to receive coaching and to give feedback upward.
mpath makes 1:1s easier to run consistently and ties them into the rest of the system (people, tasks, feedback, initiatives).

Key Concepts

One‑on‑One Record

A 1:1 in mpath represents the relationship and cadence between a manager and a report:
  • Who the manager and report are
  • How often you meet (weekly, bi‑weekly, monthly, etc.)
  • The history of notes, commitments, and topics

Notes and Action Items

  • Use notes to capture:
    • Themes over time (career goals, growth areas, strengths)
    • Specific commitments from each side
    • Follow‑ups for the next session
  • Turn action items into tasks when they should appear in the day‑to‑day workflow.
From a 1:1 you can quickly access:
  • The person’s tasks, initiatives, and meetings
  • Feedback and synopses (where appropriate)
  • Their place in the people hierarchy
This pulls everything into a single, coaching‑focused conversation.

How to Run Effective One‑on‑Ones

1. Set Up the Relationship

  1. Ensure the manager ↔ report relationship is correct in the people/teams setup.
  2. Configure the cadence you want:
    • Weekly or bi‑weekly for most engineers
    • Monthly for senior ICs or leads who also meet in group forums
  3. Make sure both sides know:
    • When the meeting is
    • What it’s for
    • How to add topics

2. Prepare for the Session

Before each 1:1, quickly review:
  • The person’s recent tasks (especially blocked or high‑priority items)
  • Any active initiatives they own or contribute to
  • Recent feedback or report synopses
Skim previous 1:1 notes for:
  • Open commitments
  • Themes you’re tracking (growth areas, stressors, goals)

3. Structure the Conversation

Use a simple flow:
  1. Their topics first
    • “What’s top of mind for you this week?”
  2. Work and execution
    • Progress, blockers, support needed
    • How current work ties back to initiatives and goals
  3. Career and growth
    • Skills to develop, opportunities, next steps
  4. Feedback both ways
    • What’s working / not working in your partnership
Capture key points and decisions in the 1:1 notes.

4. Turn Talk into Follow‑Through

At the end of the meeting:
  • Summarize 3–5 concrete commitments:
    • What they will do
    • What you will do
    • By when
  • Create tasks for items that need to show up in execution:
    • Link them to the person and any relevant initiatives.
  • At the next 1:1, start by reviewing how these commitments went.

Examples & Best Practices

Example: Early‑Career Engineer

  • Cadence: Weekly 30 minutes
  • Focus:
    • Clarifying priorities for the week
    • Unblocking tasks and pairing opportunities
    • Building confidence and communication patterns
  • In mpath:
    • Review their tasks (status + priority).
    • Use initiatives to show how their work fits into bigger goals.
    • Capture growth areas and wins in the notes.

Example: Senior IC or Tech Lead

  • Cadence: Bi‑weekly or monthly, longer when needed
  • Focus:
    • Initiative ownership and strategic impact
    • Cross‑team collaboration and influence
    • Long‑term career direction
  • In mpath:
    • Use initiative pages as anchor material.
    • Connect 1:1 topics to feedback and reports.

General Best Practices

Protect the time – cancel only when absolutely necessary, and reschedule quickly.
  • Avoid turning 1:1s into status meetings only – status is a starting point, not the whole agenda.
  • Write down commitments – future you (and they) will thank you.
  • Use the system, not separate docs – keep notes, tasks, and initiatives connected so 1:1s are grounded in reality, not memory.

Integration with Other Features

Tasks and Initiatives

  • Review recent tasks before each 1:1 to understand current workload
  • Link action items from 1:1s to relevant initiatives
  • Track follow-through by reviewing task completion between sessions

Feedback and Development

  • Reference feedback received or given since the last 1:1
  • Use synopses to track themes and patterns over time
  • Connect career discussions to development opportunities

People and Hierarchy

  • Understand reporting relationships and team context
  • See related meetings and other commitments
  • Access full person profile for comprehensive context

Common Patterns

Weekly Check-ins

For most team members, weekly 1:1s provide:
  • Regular touchpoint for alignment
  • Quick blocker resolution
  • Consistent feedback loop
  • Relationship building

Bi-Weekly or Monthly Sessions

For senior team members or leads:
  • More strategic focus
  • Longer time blocks for deeper discussions
  • Initiative and career planning emphasis
  • Cross-functional collaboration topics

Ad-Hoc Sessions

Sometimes you need to schedule additional 1:1s for:
  • Performance conversations
  • Career planning discussions
  • Conflict resolution
  • Special project check-ins

Troubleshooting

When 1:1s Feel Rushed

  • Extend duration if consistently running over
  • Reduce status updates – use async channels for routine updates
  • Focus on priorities – not everything needs discussion

When Topics Feel Stale

  • Review recent work – tasks, initiatives, feedback
  • Ask open-ended questions – “What’s challenging you right now?”
  • Connect to bigger picture – link daily work to goals and initiatives

When Follow-Through Lags

  • Create tasks immediately during or right after the 1:1
  • Review commitments at the start of the next session
  • Link tasks to initiatives so they appear in regular workflows