One‑on‑ones are your most important recurring meeting as a manager. They’re where coaching, trust, and early risk detection actually happen.
Why One‑on‑Ones Matter
For Managers
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Coach, don’t just assign
Use the time to build judgment and autonomy, not to re‑do sprint planning. -
Build trust and retention
Consistent, high‑quality 1:1s are one of the strongest predictors of engagement.
For Team Members
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Dedicated space for them
Time to talk about career, concerns, and ideas that don’t fit into standups. -
Clear priorities and expectations
Align on what “good” looks like this week/quarter. -
Regular feedback loop
Both to receive coaching and to give feedback upward.
Key Concepts
One‑on‑One Record
A 1:1 in mpath represents the relationship and cadence between a manager and a report:- Who the manager and report are
- How often you meet (weekly, bi‑weekly, monthly, etc.)
- The history of notes, commitments, and topics
Notes and Action Items
- Use notes to capture:
- Themes over time (career goals, growth areas, strengths)
- Specific commitments from each side
- Follow‑ups for the next session
- Turn action items into tasks when they should appear in the day‑to‑day workflow.
Links to Other Data
From a 1:1 you can quickly access:- The person’s tasks, initiatives, and meetings
- Feedback and synopses (where appropriate)
- Their place in the people hierarchy
How to Run Effective One‑on‑Ones
1. Set Up the Relationship
- Ensure the manager ↔ report relationship is correct in the people/teams setup.
- Configure the cadence you want:
- Weekly or bi‑weekly for most engineers
- Monthly for senior ICs or leads who also meet in group forums
- Make sure both sides know:
- When the meeting is
- What it’s for
- How to add topics
2. Prepare for the Session
Before each 1:1, quickly review:- The person’s recent tasks (especially blocked or high‑priority items)
- Any active initiatives they own or contribute to
- Recent feedback or report synopses
- Open commitments
- Themes you’re tracking (growth areas, stressors, goals)
3. Structure the Conversation
Use a simple flow:- Their topics first
- “What’s top of mind for you this week?”
- Work and execution
- Progress, blockers, support needed
- How current work ties back to initiatives and goals
- Career and growth
- Skills to develop, opportunities, next steps
- Feedback both ways
- What’s working / not working in your partnership
4. Turn Talk into Follow‑Through
At the end of the meeting:- Summarize 3–5 concrete commitments:
- What they will do
- What you will do
- By when
- Create tasks for items that need to show up in execution:
- Link them to the person and any relevant initiatives.
- At the next 1:1, start by reviewing how these commitments went.
Examples & Best Practices
Example: Early‑Career Engineer
- Cadence: Weekly 30 minutes
- Focus:
- Clarifying priorities for the week
- Unblocking tasks and pairing opportunities
- Building confidence and communication patterns
- In mpath:
- Review their tasks (status + priority).
- Use initiatives to show how their work fits into bigger goals.
- Capture growth areas and wins in the notes.
Example: Senior IC or Tech Lead
- Cadence: Bi‑weekly or monthly, longer when needed
- Focus:
- Initiative ownership and strategic impact
- Cross‑team collaboration and influence
- Long‑term career direction
- In mpath:
- Use initiative pages as anchor material.
- Connect 1:1 topics to feedback and reports.
General Best Practices
- Avoid turning 1:1s into status meetings only – status is a starting point, not the whole agenda.
- Write down commitments – future you (and they) will thank you.
- Use the system, not separate docs – keep notes, tasks, and initiatives connected so 1:1s are grounded in reality, not memory.
Integration with Other Features
Tasks and Initiatives
- Review recent tasks before each 1:1 to understand current workload
- Link action items from 1:1s to relevant initiatives
- Track follow-through by reviewing task completion between sessions
Feedback and Development
- Reference feedback received or given since the last 1:1
- Use synopses to track themes and patterns over time
- Connect career discussions to development opportunities
People and Hierarchy
- Understand reporting relationships and team context
- See related meetings and other commitments
- Access full person profile for comprehensive context
Common Patterns
Weekly Check-ins
For most team members, weekly 1:1s provide:- Regular touchpoint for alignment
- Quick blocker resolution
- Consistent feedback loop
- Relationship building
Bi-Weekly or Monthly Sessions
For senior team members or leads:- More strategic focus
- Longer time blocks for deeper discussions
- Initiative and career planning emphasis
- Cross-functional collaboration topics
Ad-Hoc Sessions
Sometimes you need to schedule additional 1:1s for:- Performance conversations
- Career planning discussions
- Conflict resolution
- Special project check-ins
Troubleshooting
When 1:1s Feel Rushed
- Extend duration if consistently running over
- Reduce status updates – use async channels for routine updates
- Focus on priorities – not everything needs discussion
When Topics Feel Stale
- Review recent work – tasks, initiatives, feedback
- Ask open-ended questions – “What’s challenging you right now?”
- Connect to bigger picture – link daily work to goals and initiatives
When Follow-Through Lags
- Create tasks immediately during or right after the 1:1
- Review commitments at the start of the next session
- Link tasks to initiatives so they appear in regular workflows

